Using Visual Routine Reminders at Home. How Visual Supports Help Children With ADHD at Home and at School

Why Visual Routines Work

Children with ADHD often struggle with:

  • Transitions between activities

  • Remembering multi-step instructions

  • Getting started on tasks

  • Staying focused

  • Emotional frustration during “rush” moments (mornings, bedtime, leaving the house)

Visual routine reminders—such as posters, checklists, picture schedules, or laminated cards—reduce these stress points by making expectations clear, predictable, and easy to follow.

How Visual Schedules Help the Brain

Visual reminders support executive functioning by:

  • Reducing cognitive load: Children don’t have to hold all the steps in their memory at once.

  • Providing predictability: When kids know what’s coming next, transitions feel safer and calmer.

  • Supporting independence: Kids can look at the visual instead of relying on repeated verbal reminders.

  • Helping with emotional regulation: Clear routines reduce overwhelm, which lowers meltdowns or resistance.

  • Improving follow-through: Children stay on task longer when steps are broken down visually.

Benefits at Home

Visual schedules can make morning and nighttime routines smoother by:

  • Breaking down complex tasks (“Get ready for school”) into manageable steps

  • Reducing arguments and power struggles

  • Helping kids anticipate transitions

  • Allowing the parent to prompt less and praise more

  • Giving the child a sense of pride and ownership

Examples of helpful routines:

  • Morning routine

  • Bedtime routine

  • After-school routine

  • Homework steps

  • “Before we leave the house” checklist

Benefits at School

Teachers use visual supports for many of the same reasons. Visual routines help students with ADHD:

  • Follow classroom rules more easily

  • Stay focused during independent work

  • Complete multi-step tasks (writing assignments, math routines)

  • Manage transitions (centers, recess, lining up, cleaning up)

  • Feel more confident and less overwhelmed

When home and school both use visual structures, children receive consistent support across settings.

Tips for Making Your Visual Routine Work

- Keep each step short and concrete (“Put on socks” vs. “Get ready”).

- Use pictures for younger children and simple words for older ones.

- Post visuals where they are most needed (bathroom, bedroom, hallway, kitchen).

- Practice the routine when everyone is calm.

- Offer praise for following even one step independently.

- Review as the child grows—update visuals to match new skills.

Why This Matters

Children with ADHD aren’t “forgetful on purpose.” Their brains simply work differently. Visual schedules allow them to succeed by giving them tools that match the way they learn best.

With consistency, visual routines can lead to:

  • More independence

  • Fewer reminders needed

  • Less morning and bedtime stress

  • Better follow-through

  • Increased confidence

    -Rashawna Schumacher, LMFT

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